5 tips for pressing the flesh
Even in this digital age, face-to-face networking – where you press the flesh (shake hands) with those you meet – still is key to building long-term business relationships.
Events held by professional associations provide one entry into the world of business networking, and two key associations for communications professionals are the Canadian Public Relations Society (CPRS) and the International Association of Business Communicators (IABC).
We make a point not only to attend events held by our local chapters but also to make our presence felt at national and international conferences. This weekend, for example, our team flies into Saint John, N.B. for the CPRS national conference, and next weekend, several of our representatives will be in San Diego, Calif. for the IABC World Conference. Sandwiched in between is our sponsorship of the IABC Ottawa Excel Awards Gala.
Since we’re also at the social media camp in Victoria this weekend, the forecast for our immediate future is for a lot of flesh pressing indeed.
And hey, in the spirit of these upcoming events, we thought we’d share five networking tips for beginners. (Everyone has to start somewhere, right?)
1. Prepare an elevator speech. This is a brief – 30 seconds or so – explanation of who you are and what you do. Use it as a base to clearly and concisely position yourself. Having your own personal boilerplate in your mind can eliminate any tendency to ramble. To ensure it sounds natural, be prepared to adapt as the situation warrants.
2. Do your homework. When you register online, check out the other attendees and prepare relevant questions to ask or update yourself on timely news to discuss. If you’re interested in meeting particular people, research them using LinkedIn and other tools.
3. Listen. Soak up information people impart and be an active listener. Use appropriate body language (head nods, facial expressions, body orientation), ask relevant questions, and make comments that assure the speaker you are taking in what she or he is saying. In one-on-one or one-on-few conversations, good talkers may be admired, but good listeners are treasured.
4. Follow up. Have plenty of business cards to exchange, and consider adding a QR code with your contact information. If you make a solid connection, feel free to email the person, follow him or her on Twitter, and/or send an invitation to join your network on LinkedIn.
5. Do not commit any of these four cardinal sins of networking:
- displaying bad manners, including interrupting people, leaving when the speaker is in the middle of a sentence or thought, or constant checking of your watch;
- dumping people once you get what you want;
- taking but giving nothing in return;
- forgetting the common courtesies such as saying thank you when warranted.
If you’re attending any of the events we mentioned, we’ll look forward to meeting you there.
If not, and if you’re in the Ottawa area, perhaps we’ll find ourselves pressing the flesh at a future Social Media Breakfast Ottawa event, a Girl Geek Dinner, or a Third Tuesday get-together.





